For the Love, by my friend Jen Hatmaker
Jen Hatmaker
Yes, I CAN call her my friend. When I read her books, I feel like she is in my livingroom, and we are having an amazing conversation. I really understand why she writes the way she does. She is just simplifying everything we already know.
In this newest book, For the Love, Jen Hatmaker really makes me feel good about making some tough choices. She has put out some truths that I am sure not everyone will want to hear. I did, however, learn a few new things about myself that I would love to share with you.
1- I have wanted to yell about “Crappy Christians” for a long time. I feel like this conversation is way overdue. I am tired of getting hurt, shamed, walked on by people who are supposed to be part of the family of Christ. Really Tired. I was told it was normal, and that I had to develop thicker skin. It is NOT ok. And I am not alone. Jesus wouldn’t like it. Chapter 25.
2-Everyone has to deal with Difficult People. Whether its an in-law, work acquaintance or otherwise- how we deal with difficult people begins with enacting the “No Drama Forcefield”. See chapter 18.
3-I have always needed a term to describe our family. We. Are. Spicy. Chapter 9 could’ve been written from the livingroom my kids grew up in. Seriously.
4-Marraige and how to make it last. This is EPIC. We have been married almost 23 years. Thats a lot of “stuff” to work through. We aren’t the same person. We don’t take ourselves too seriously. We have sex. Really. 23 years. This chapter is therapy for those who need it, and affirmation for those who are thinking of trying something new. Don’t. Chapter 12
5-My favorite quote-right outta the last page of chapter 11.
“So these are my dreams for you:
Be Kind
Be You
Love Jesus.”
Something new to live by, an old fashioned idea for a complicated modern world. Where stuff seems to be the goal, and people get left on the wayside. The laughter, humility, truthfulness and love poured into this book pours out for all to feel all the feels.